Dealing With Difficult Times

Day 1

2Consider it a great joy, my brothers and sisters, whenever you experience various trials,3because you know that the testing of your faith produces endurance.4And let endurance have its full effect, so that you may be mature and complete, lacking nothing.
JAMES 1:2-4 (CSB)

Commentary

Going through trials is never enjoyable. If given the option, we’d 100% of the time choose to avoid them. But it’s through such trials that God forges us and strengthens our faith. Like fire hardening steel, the trials we face and will face are that fire which brings strength to our currently brittle spiritual state. The Bible teaches that God will transform us to be like His Son, and that transformation began the moment you placed your trust in Jesus.

Though we already look ahead to when the triumph over our trial will come, once the trial hits, it’s not the breakthrough which offers the greatest benefit. Hard as it is, it’s the time inside the trial which is most advantageous for the believer. It’s in that time of suffering that we call out to God in ways which we’d fail to otherwise. And it’s during such time that He brings the greatest amount of spiritual growth to you.

Soul Search

What was the last fiery trial I experienced, and how did it help to shape me as a believer?

Prayer

Heavenly Father, give me the ears to hear what You need me to hear as I read this devotional study. In Jesus’ name, I pray. Amen

Day 2

3And not only that, but we also boast in our afflictions, because we know that affliction produces endurance,4endurance produces proven character, and proven character produces hope.5This hope will not disappoint us, because God’s love has been poured out in our hearts through the Holy Spirit who was given to us.
ROMANS 5:3-5 (CSB)

Commentary

In the passage above, Paul, through the guidance of the Holy Spirit, is teaching that we should rejoice when affliction hits us, because in that affliction comes the strengthening of our inner self. It’s endurance, Christ-like character, and hope in the Lord which aid in our ability to stand the tests of our faith and to endure the hardships of this life; with a God-given strength, which not even the gates of Hell can contend with, when relied upon in full measure.

It’s natural to us and easy for us to try and maneuver through difficult seasons utilizing our own wisdom. In that wisdom, you may think, “if I just had more money, then the problem would be solved”, or “if I was so and so, then I would not be dealing with this”. This is something we are all guilty of doing; in times of weakness and laziness, we don’t seek the Lord for His wisdom. No matter how much money you have, how much focus you put on your health, or the status you hold in life, all of that can be taken away in a blink of an eye. God allows such trials in our lives to strengthen and grow our hope in Him, because He is all that we truly need.

Soul Search

How have I tried to rely on my own understanding in order to navigate a tough season? Did it end up making things worse?

Prayer

Heavenly Father, help me to look to You all day, every day, and not to wish that I had this or that, because the truth is, I am already rich in You. In Jesus’ name, I pray. Amen

Day 3

13No one undergoing a trial should say, “I am being tempted by God,” since God is not tempted by evil, and he himself doesn’t tempt anyone.14But each person is tempted when he is drawn away and enticed by his own evil desire.15Then after desire has conceived, it gives birth to sin, and when sin is fully grown, it gives birth to death.16Don’t be deceived, my dear brothers and sisters.17Every good and perfect gift is from above, coming down from the Father of lights, who does not change like shifting shadows.
JAMES 1:13-17 (CSB)

Commentary

It can be tempting to try and place the blame on God for the troubles we face. But many of the hardships we face come directly from our own sinful actions. It’s important to understand that God never changes; He is the same yesterday, today, and forever. He is light, and there is no darkness in Him. So anything that is filled with evil is not from Him but allowed by Him in His permissible will, which our free will is subject to.

If you acted in sin and got yourself into a bad situation, God can help you through, but know that He may allow you to suffer the consequences, out of love, as a disciplinary action. If what you are going through is a temptation to sin, Jesus promises that there is always a way out provided by Him, but you must choose it. As an example, if you have an urge to look at pornography, you would find a way out of that temptation by instead praying and/or reading the Bible until that temptation passes, then rinse and repeat to avoid it again and again.

Now if you’re staying out of trouble and trying to avoid temptation, but season after season of difficulty is coming at you, it very well could be that God is trying to get your attention. If you’ve not been focused on Him through prayer and Bible study, yet only run to him when things are difficult, He may be bringing trials your way so that you will focus again on Him. It’s easy to fall into a pattern of only seeking the Lord when in need, but like any relationship, there needs to be communication with Him every day, even when life is going great.

Soul Search

What is my relationship with Jesus like? Is it long distance with a little prayer and study here and there, or is it close, with daily communication?

Prayer

Lord Jesus, I want to be closer to You, and I know that any distance is of my own doing. Help me to set aside my excuses and make the effort to spend more time with You. In Your mighty name, I pray. Amen

Day 4

13Who then will harm you if you are devoted to what is good?14But even if you should suffer for righteousness, you are blessed. Do not fear them or be intimidated,15but in your hearts regard Christ the Lord as holy, ready at any time to give a defense to anyone who asks you for a reason for the hope that is in you.
1 PETER 3:13-15 (CSB)

Commentary

Fear is crippling, and fear created by lies will motivate even the most stubborn of people to go against their conscience and beliefs if they have believed the lies. The demonic forces around us traffick in that lie-driven fear, and lying is the currency of Satan. The troubles we face may incite wrongful fear in us, but we must understand that there is no reason for such fear. With Jesus, there is nothing that can harm our souls, even if harm comes to our mortal bodies.

Apart from the forging effects trials have on our spiritual being, they can also serve as a powerful, visible witness to our faith in Christ. When the unbelievers around you are overcome with despair, yet see you thriving in an unbelievable hope and joy — even as the world around you is in chaos — it serves as a strong witness for Jesus. COVID-19 was a perfect example of that; the lost started to freak out, while those who are strong in Christ remained relatively calm, and that is powerful beyond any words of encouragement that we could share.

The trials and afflictions of life not only strengthen our faith and hope in Jesus, they also keep us humble and reliant upon Him. God may not heal your anxiety disorder or restore your physical strength because it may be that if you were healed of such things, then you would try even more to walk in your own abilities and understanding. Paul desperately prayed for the Lord’s removal of whatever was afflicting him, but Jesus instead told him, “My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is perfected in weakness.”

Soul Search

Do I have an affliction that I’ve wanted the Lord to remove, that He has yet to remove? Have I considered that it might be used for His glory?

Prayer

Heavenly Father, may Your name be glorified in all that I do, even when the days are tough. In Jesus’ name, I pray. Amen

Day 5

35Who can separate us from the love of Christ? Can affliction or distress or persecution or famine or nakedness or danger or sword?36As it is written: Because of you we are being put to death all day long; we are counted as sheep to be slaughtered.37No, in all these things we are more than conquerors through him who loved us.38For I am persuaded that neither death nor life, nor angels nor rulers, nor things present nor things to come, nor powers,39nor height nor depth, nor any other created thing will be able to separate us from the love of God that is in Christ Jesus our Lord.
ROMANS 8:35-39 (CSB)

Commentary

Let’s end this with words of encouragement that can be found in Scripture. No matter what you may face, know that the Lord is with you. You are never alone, and an escape from temptation is always available through Him. If you walk in the Spirit, then your seasons of trials and tribulations will not only be for your sanctification but may also serve as a strong witness to those lost souls around you or even encourage a Christian who is weak in faith.

When the days grow dark and the hours bring numbing fear, may the Lord be your guide, your strength, and your hope — and His Word be the lamp at your feet which lights the path ahead.

2The LORD is my rock, my fortress, and my deliverer, my God, my rock where I seek refuge, my shield and the horn of my salvation, my stronghold.
PSALMS 18:2 (CSB)

4God is my helper; the Lord is the sustainer of my life.
PSALMS 54:4 (CSB)

Soul Search

Am I truly allowing Jesus to be my Rock?

Prayer

Lord Jesus, help me to rejoice in trials, knowing that they are for my sanctification and through them my hope in You will become rock solid. So that in each additional season of difficulty I may have strength, derived from my hope in You, to make it through. In Your mighty name, I pray. Amen